I have chosen to immediately refund and have said no to working with people and doing sessions, that were paid in full because of toxic behaviors.
I completely understand wounds and trauma but I will not feed and enable it.
I dont care how much money I would have gotten, its not worth it to me and not respectful to my work or my time and only grows the toxicity for that person.
Some might think that is crazy, might have put up with it for the money, heck even I have done that in the past, but I wont do it anymore.
Someone a few months ago AFTER messaging me complaining about my prices and trying to talk me into giving her things for less with a whole bunch of reasons why I should, said she would be buying a session with me, telling me what she expected of me, how it was my fault now she would have no food for two weeks since she was going to buy a session with me and how soon she better earn her money back. Um hell no!
I told her no, I didn't want to do the session and not to purchase because first off, I wasn't making her buy the session, it was her choice. I told her I didn't appreciate putting the blame on me and I was not available for that,.
She then purchased!
I immediately sent her her money back and told her I would not do a session with her.
Days later, she then proceeded to cross boundaries again, with another message similar to the first. Saying she wanted to buy and would go without, sleep on the floor, sell her things, etc.
Again, no, not available for this in any way!
Just because I own a business and sell products and services, does NOT mean I have to put up with toxic and abusive behaviors for money.
So just an FYI:
Do not purchase anything from me if you want a quick fix and aren't willing to look deeper
Do not purchase anything from me if you play victim and dont want to take responsibility
Do not purchase anything from me if all you do is complain about the price and hope to "get your moneys worth"
Do not purchase anything from me if you have a list of excuses why it "can't" work for you and aren't open to it working
Do not purchase anything from me if you are expecting me to fix you and you want to put a ton of pressure on me to do so
Do not purchase from me if you think it all might be a waste of time and money and dont see yourself and your relationship with your body and thriving life as a investment
It is honestly a waste of your time and your time is valuable even if you dont see it for yourself
I am here when you are willing to do something different to receive different results than what you have been getting
Until then, you have some free videos in my Facebook group to watch and start there
If you are ready to look deeper, take responsibility for your healing, open to rapid results and magic, and are ready to invest in your relationships with yourself, your body and your life, message me
Love Aimee
The Body Whisperer
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